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Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Gaurding a Womens Heart

we always hear about how girls can protect guys by dressing modestly, etc. the reason for that is because guys are visual creatures and so guys like to....visualize. but how come we dont hear about how guys can protect girls' hearts? girls really arent as visual as guys are, so dressing modestly for guys doesnt quite have the same impact on girls.

girls seemed to be more attracted to guys who are nice, guys who are gentlemen...guys who just simply know how to treat a women. this really gets a girl going..eh eh eh?? the way guys are initially attracted to a girl by looks is the same way girls are attracted to guys by their personalities.

but we, as men, need to protect the hearts of our fellow sisters in Christ. we cannot, and will not, allow our sisters to have their hearts broken into pieces, over and over again. ladies, we are here to protect your hearts, we care about you. you will no longer fall into sin by the captivating personalities of the gentlemen you have all fantasized about. there is only one way we can do this.

by showing that we really care about their hearts, we must act like we dont care about them. in order to protect the hearts of our sisters in Christ, we can no longer lead them to temptation by being nice and chivalrous. we must lead them to Christ, not nice guys. we must act now...no more mr. nice guy. this is a call to be jerks to all women, in hope that women will not be led astray by the dangerous men out there. stop being nice, stop opening doors for them, and no more paying for their food.

just think of the difference it would make in our world. girls wont fall for a guy who is nice and chivalrous..only to get her heart broken weeks later, instead christian girls all over will be developing deeper relationships with their girl friends and fellowshipping with one another. the true intentions of men who act like jerks to the women will begin to surface, and girls will see that the men who really care about them are the ones who protect their hearts. show that you care about them by showing that you dont care about them. this renovation of the heart will change the lives of christian women all over the world.

men...we must act now.

a womens heart is beautiful. lets keep it that way.


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*contrary to popular misunderstanding, i do not condone this message..only for some. jk!

6 comments:

  1. ohhh. so that's why you've been being a jerk to so many girls! Now I understand! good job sean! keep being the jerk like you are! you are making a huge change!!!
    (No, I will not be jerks to girls)

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  2. lol sean, are you trying to rationalize your being a jerk to girls? tsk tsk, there's much more to guarding a girl's heart and being a jerk isn't exactly one of them :P

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  3. p.s. i think you meant guarding a woman's heart :P

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  4. hahaha, so half way through reading this...i was like, i want to punch you in the face.

    hah

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  5. this entry still doesn't justify your ill treatment towards girls... and guys. Plus, you do know that girls don't date guys who are just nice all the time, right?

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  6. oooooohhhhh
    so this is your philosophy behind your daily actions, it all makes sense now

    haha but actually in some ways...i do agree with what you said. *applaud

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